I was in the States a few months ago when a young police officer was shot down miles from where I was staying in Colorado. He was just 30 years old, and he left behind a young wife and two … Read more about What young widows need you to know about their grief
The Upside of Pain
I write a lot about the pain, loneliness and disillusionment that often accompanies grief. I am motivated to be real and vulnerable with the deep pain I have experienced. I have had obvious losses … Read more about The Upside of Pain
The Scent of a Woman
Smells can have a powerful affect on our emotions, one whiff of a scent from our past and we are flooded with memories. For me it the smell of lilies. For most people lilies have a pleasant aroma, … Read more about The Scent of a Woman
A life well lived
We have all been there. We have all found ourselves at a funeral of someone that was less than amazing. Years ago, I went to support a co-worker by attending the funeral of her ex-husband and … Read more about A life well lived
Like a cruel wave
In anticipation for the release of my book following my grief journey through the loss of a husband and then my son. A second book ’Shaken, not Stirred,’ on my advice for blended families … Read more about Like a cruel wave
What makes a marriage last?
Gary and I just celebrated six years of marriage. I love our anniversaries more than any other celebration of the year. We have celebrated in Hawaii, Napa Valley, Aspen, Vail, … Read more about What makes a marriage last?
Africa: Adventures of a White Middle Class Housewife, Final Entry
Around all the poverty of Africa is a great deal of beauty, somehow it is all intertwined. You can see that these people were blessed to have been born in such an extraordinary place, yet they are … Read more about Africa: Adventures of a White Middle Class Housewife, Final Entry
Africa: Adventures of a White Middle Class Housewife, Part 5
We drove all around this village today. You can see that it was a jewel 30 to 60 years ago. The structures are still solid, but need repair and cosmetic touches. Well, cosmetic surgery. I have decided … Read more about Africa: Adventures of a White Middle Class Housewife, Part 5
Africa: Adventures of a White Middle Class Housewife, Part 6
Our day today concluded with the “Abandon Babies for Christ” or ABC. It is a real house just a few yards from where we could be living with 15+ little ones, unwanted by their … Read more about Africa: Adventures of a White Middle Class Housewife, Part 6
